If you think “toxic femininity” is real, you are part of the problem…

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On Thanksgiving weekend, 2011, San Jose police officer Christopher Shimek wrapped his hands around his wife’s throat and squeezed until she was dead. Then he shot himself. Why? She said she wanted a divorce.

Christopher O’Kroley said it was “easy” to kill Caroline Nosal. They both worked at a grocery store. He wanted her. She said no. So he…